Q: My husband has admitted that he has a cocaine problem; however, he refuses to go to a drug and alcohol rehab center. He says he can just quit. He’s been saying this for six months now, and his still using. He’s on the verge of losing his job, and we’re behind on our mortgage. What should I do?
A: First, remember that this is your husband’s addiction, not yours. However, there are certain steps that you can take to help your husband reach the point where HE is willing to get help for his cocaine addiction.
Get Educated.Research drug and alcohol rehab centers. There are many factors to consider when choosing a drug program such as the success rate of the program, the location, length, and price. What methods do they use? What services and follow-up do they provide? Remember, the better educated you are on drug rehab centers that are available, the more likely you are to sell your husband on the right treatment option for his addiction.
Intervene. This doesn’t mean flush his cocaine down the toilet, or make him sleep in the spare bedroom. This means organize an intervention. Use a professional who is trained in this field. Gather loved ones and make sure that everyone has the same common goal in mind – to get your husband to the right drug and alcohol rehab center.
Remember that you are already one step ahead since your husband has already admitted that he has a problem. Now, it’s simply a matter of becoming educated about what drug rehab center is right for him and intervening so that he can get the help he needs and your marriage, your home, and ultimately his life can be saved.
